Want to do a Sexy Photoshoot for Your Spouse? Here Are Some Tips.

These photos also make a GREAT gift for your partner or to celebrate a milestone in your life!

A boudoir shoot is not only a sexy gift for them, but the photoshoot itself is also one of the most empowering and incredible experiences you’ll ever have—AND you’ll have beautiful photos of yourself to reconnect with that feeling for a lasting confidence boost!

Read this experience boudoir photoshoot for husband-to-be:

“I wanted to do something fun and slightly out of the norm for myself as well as wanting to give my husband a gift for our wedding. Throughout the experience it became a lot less about the groom’s gift for him, and so much more about the experience I was giving to myself.”

So, in the end, while this sexy photoshoot was for her husband, it really became a gift for herself, and an incredibly empowering experience that helped her step out of her comfort zone and remember who she is, outside of being a busy mom and wife.

Are you ready to do a sexy photoshoot for your spouse (and yourself!)? If you’re interested in a boudoir photoshoot for your partner, here are a few tips and ideas that will help you make it memorable!

Ideas for a Sexy Boudoir Photoshoot for Your Partner:

1. Include Something Personal

If you’re using the boudoir images as a gift for your significant other, you may want to include something personal for you both. We can use it as a prop during the session. Ask us for feedback on ideas. We’ve seen lots of things that are a great addition to your story without being a distraction from the main character—YOU!

2. Wear Their Clothes

Your wardrobe choices for your boudoir session play a key role in creating the perfect photos for your spouse! Try raiding their side of the closet for your big day! Button-down shirts are always a sexy classic. Are they sports fans? Bring along a jersey of their fave team (button-up works the best!). Wearing their clothes can make add a personal and intimate note to your photoshoot.

3. Bedroom fantasies

Take your sexy photoshoot to the next level by touching on a bedroom fantasy. Maybe they’ve mentioned a fantasy like blindfolding you and teasing you with a feather. A boudoir shoot can really spark their imagination!

4. Highlight Your Partner’s Favorite Features

Does your spouse love a certain feature of yours? We can definitely highlight that in your photoshoot. We can recommend certain poses that accentuate those features and recommend a few outfits that emphasize those physical qualities. 

5. Show Off Your Personality 

As part of our boudoir pre-session journey, we’ll ask you what your spouse enjoys about you. We’ll usually hear something like “my husband really likes it when I’m in charge” or “my spouse enjoys my cheeky and playful side”. Those are great to explore in emotional vibes during your session.  

We love artfully bringing your personality to life in your boudoir photos! This will make your photos even more meaningful and intimate for your spouse. 

What to do With The Photos From Photoshoot 

I did this amazing shoot. Now what? How should I gift my spouse from my boudoir photo session? 

Wall art — Displaying photos from your boudoir shoot as wall art will give your spouse the opportunity to admire the ART of YOU every day AND a killer confidence boost for you too!

Photo album — This archival keepsake is the best way to preserve your boudoir images for years to come. 

Table-top folio — A table-top folio is made for the spouse who loves bragging about you in front of every group of friends, or hell, any random stranger as well. 

Mobile phone app — this is a great gift idea for the techie spouse who keeps everything on their phone and handy for they travel a lot.

Poker cards — You’ll be turning heads at the next poker night!

When Should I Give My Partner the Boudoir Photos? 

There is no wrong time to give your spouse your special gift. However, here are a few ideas for when to gift your boudoir photos throughout the year!

  • Weddings — Traditionally, gifts were exchanged the morning of the wedding, but modern day wedding schedules can be a bit hectic! Boudoir can be a great gift leading up to your big day or when you know you two will have dedicated alone time together.
  • Honeymoon — You could give it the night before the wedding—or, can do a sexy photoshoot for your new spouse while on your honeymoon. After the party is over and you can share that moment together in its fullness. 
  • Anniversary — Share the gift of YOU for your anniversary! It will be a wonderful surprise gift to share intimate photos with your life partner.
  • Birthday — a sexy photoshoot can be a spicy and sensual gift to your partner to celebrate their birthday. 
  • Valentine’s Day — if you’re looking for a loving gift that is unexpected, a boudoir shoot can be a unique and bold way to celebrate your love.
  • The Holidays — celebrate the romance of the holiday season with a sexy photoshoot for the holidays. It’s a great way to show how much they mean to you! 

Whenever you decide to give your boudoir gift, we can keep your secret—just let us know!! 

Your photos and experience are confidential unless you give us permission to share them. 

We are honored that so many of our clients allow us to share photos to help empower others. Don’t worry, we can also wait until after the wedding to share too!

Closing Out: Sexy Photoshoot for Your Spouse

A boudoir photoshoot for your spouse is a sexy gift for your partner, but it can also be an incredible experience for YOU too. They’ll go crazy for the photos and you’ll feel amazing from the experience and seeing at the final results!

Have questions about boudoir? Contact me to get started.

Bring self-love back into your daily practice.

Self-love secrets to help you enhance your relationship with yourself.

In this guide, you will:

  • Learn how to start the journey. Self-love is the foundation of being your best in all parts of life—it shouldn’t wait for anything.
  • Find meaning and joy in daily life. Loving yourself and your life go hand in hand—I’ll show you how to do both.
  • Discover the value of being your authentic self. Unapologetically.

Get your free guide!

get your free guide!

EMBRACE YOUR STORY — BOUDOIR, FAMILY, AND BRANDING PHOTOGRAPHY WITH MEANING AND SOME HEART & SOUL, BABY