Your Complete Guide to Boudoir Outfit Ideas
A boudoir session promotes a positive self-image and confidence. Boudoir is about expressing sensuality and creativity through photos, and your outfit choices can be a part of your personal expression. Sometimes choosing outfits for your boudoir session can feel overwhelming. Determining your outfit vibe can help you walk into your session feeling more comfortable and confident, ready to be unapologetically fierce!
If you can’t decide what to wear to a boudoir photography session, we’re sharing tips on clothes, props, and accessories to combine for amazing boudoir outfits. Keep reading for stunning and sexy boudoir outfit ideas.
20 Bold & Sexy Outfit Ideas for Your Boudoir Shoot (Plus 2 Bonus Ideas)
Planning and preparing outfits will help you achieve the sensuality and effect you want for your shoot. Luckily, a great photographer will work with you to advise on ideas.
If you’re looking for some inspiration for a shoot, here are twenty ideas on what to wear to your boudoir shoot, with a few bonus ideas.
One-piece Outfit Ideas
1. Shapewear
Shapewear is an often overlooked option, but it is super flattering and looks incredible for boudoir photos. You’ll feel empowered and chic! Consider high-waisted shapewear if you worry about your stomach region (probably the most common concern I hear from women!)
2. Bodysuit
A bodysuit is a versatile and comfortable option if you want to cover more skin for your boudoir shoot. Wearing a bodysuit shapes and elongates the torso. Consider whether or not the bodysuit smashes the girls or provides some bust support. There are many kinds of bodysuits available with a built-in underwire bra or even having a separate section of material for the bustline can do the trick. Also, be on the lookout for triangular patterns as they can be very slimming and alluring for your bodyline.
3. Dress
An unzipped dress is a classic and sexy look. A black dress, backless red dress, or short slip dress can emphasize your curves without being overly-revealing. You can have some classic portraits taken with the dress fully on which are great for profile photos and framed mantel pieces. Then we’ll peel back the layers for a storytelling feel that exudes all the sexiness!
Two-Piece Outfit Ideas
Lingerie-like sleepwear, slinky robes, satin PJs, vintage pieces, and sexy tops paired with a pencil skirt are fashionable and great ways to show personality and personal style. You can also consider a favorite bikini or bralette paired with a skirt, jeans, or shorts for something cute yet flirty.
4. Brassiere and Underwear
A good supportive bra and underwear set is a staple outfit for a sexy boudoir shoot. It can be a classic black set or choose something flowery or colorful. When choosing a bra, make sure it provides proper support and hugs your body firmly. Lace pieces that show your true form are a favorite, as opposed to a very padded bra. We celebrate nipples around here, so if that falls within your comfort zone, don’t be afraid of a sheer or lacey piece. Also, matching sets are great but often these come with thong or tiny bikini bottoms. Don’t feel things have to be super matchy-matchy! Pairing a sexy lace bra with high-waisted undies is a super timeless and sexy look. We LOOOOOOVE high-waisted looks as they elongate the torso and also slim the tummy, creating a cinched waist look. Try it out and see what you think!
5. Corset and underwear
Corsets can be a fashionable and distinct look for a flattering silhouette. When choosing a corset for your shoot, stick to a sweetheart neckline or under-the-bust styles. We LOVE under-the-bust styles because you get all the options: with a bra, without a bra with pasties, and bare-breasted for a seriously rebellious and confident look!
Straight-cut corsets will flatten the girls, so try to avoid them.
KEY: try on your corset and get it cinched up in the ballpark so that you don’t have to figure it out the day of your session. These are also great with high-waisted panties or a skirt.
6. Bralette and stockings
Choosing a lace bralette or a bustier bra (bra with an extended waistline) is cute yet flirty and highlights your assets. Pairing a bustier with stockings can elongate and accentuate your legs. Fishnet stockings can provide a fun vintage flair.
7. Leather Skirt and Bra
Wearing a leather mini skirt with a bra is a sexy night-on-the-town option, emphasizing your curves without being too revealing. Another option is pairing a leather jacket with a bra and fitted pencil skirt. Sassy executive appeal!
8. Camisole and hipster undies
An unbuttoned blouse or sheer camisole paired with sheer underwear or denim shorts can make casual clothes appear more sensual. To highlight your chest, wear lower-cut tops with asymmetrical or necklines.
Cover-ups
Clothes for boudoir photography aren’t always skimpy or have less fabric. Depending on your style, you can use cover-ups to pair with lingerie or create an outfit.
9. Large coat
Do you have a favorite coat, fur coat, or trench coat that’s been sleeping in your closet for a while now? Use it for your photoshoot! Drape it over your shoulders and wear it with your favorite pumps for a mysterious look. A trench coat with stilettos and lingerie underneath is a HOT classic!
10. Cardigan
Mixing a soft, cozy cardigan with high-waisted or boyshort undies can give a cozy Sunday morning vibe. You can choose a more feminine look or grab your partner’s cardigan for a sporty look. Cardigans are super for getting comfortable in front of the camera and playing coy and flirty during your photo shoot.
11. Jacket
Bring outdoor vibes to your shoot by wearing a fitted blazer, a men’s blazer, or a fashionable jacket. Leather, denim, and corduroy jackets are classic staples that can pair well with lingerie—lacy or casual.
12. Tees, crop top, tank top
For a laidback look, go braless and wear an oversized shirt, crop top, or tank top. Pair it with cheeky underwear and high socks for a fun sporty look.
13. Shawl
Draping a sheer shawl over your body can highlight a beautiful silhouette. These stunning photos tend to give more of a fine art feel, revealing some skin while still covering up or obscuring specific body parts. They can be a fabulous addition for creating movement and abstract photos.
14. Kimono or Robe
Wearing a silk robe for a shoot allows you to flaunt your assets while also providing layers to peel back for more storytelling and allure. It pairs nicely with lingerie to help add texture to your boudoir photos.
Something You Love
Whether it’s something casual or sentimental, wearing something you love can personalize your session in a special way.
16. Sentimental Garments
A boudoir photoshoot is the perfect chance to wear clothes with special meaning. It could be a hand-me-down full-length robe or a special piece of jewelry.
17. Wedding Veil and Clothing
Planning some surprise photos for your spouse-to-be before your wedding day? Wear your wedding veil and pair it with lace underwear and stockings. A veil, tiara, wedding robe, or honeymoon lingerie can be used for some surprise-teasing photos before the big day. They’ll love to see art of you!
18. Lingerie Gift Set from Your Partner
If your partner gifted you a lingerie set, you can return the favor by wearing it for your boudoir session. Your partner will absolutely love it!!
19. Sleek and Chic Cocktail Dress
For a classic elegant look, bring a cocktail dress to wear for your boudoir shoot—one that you’d wear out for a night on the town. Something chic and fitted or full-length filled with layers of tulle. Go for a vibe!! Check out Rent the Runway for something special if you don’t already have a favorite.
20. Jeans
A pair of favorite jeans can make you feel amazing and at home. Pair those jeans with a basic tee, a contrasting bra, a button up shirt, or nothing at all! Leave jeans unbuttoned to offer a glimpse of your undies to spice it up.
Bonus
21. Accessories and Props
When it comes to boudoir photography, no clothes can sometimes be the right look. While some people like to take some nude shots, you can still cover yourself using materials such as sheers or sheets. Accessories are always a good layering option.
For instance, you can drape a sheer shawl over your naked body, so that you can still highlight your silhouette.
Accessories such as long necklaces, pearls, chokers, hats, gloves, stockings, and garter belts can add dimension to your boudoir outfits. You can use masks or blindfolds for an extra sultry look.
22. Blankets and Pillows
Some of the gorgeous boudoir photos involve covering the body with only a bedsheet or pillow. This lets you create nude-illusion shots without actually showing more than you’d like. We have lots of blankets and of course sheets if this appeals to you!
Tips to Keep in Mind When Choosing Outfits
When preparing a boudoir outfit, it’s important to choose a variety of clothing, accessories, and colors that help you express yourself. You should consider if the styles feel true to your personality. Make sure to balance comfort, sexiness, and your personality when selecting boudoir clothes.
You would probably have several questions as a first-time boudoir shoot client. This is why I’m guiding you through the wardrobe selection process so that you can find the best fit for your photoshoot experience.
Pick Clothing That You Love and Highlights Your Best Features
The first rule to selecting clothes for a boudoir shoot is to pick items that you feel good in! Finding flattering clothes isn’t about hiding body features. Be brave and highlight your favorite features. Don’t be afraid to flaunt your cleavage or hug those curves. Dive into your femininity and show your juicy side. We are ALL about the extra guacamole around here and want to support you in taking up space and having a sense of pride and confidence!
To highlight your collarbones, wear deep-V, strapless, spaghetti strap, or halter dresses. Satin and lace fabrics are soft yet flattering and highlight feminine curves and features.
Play With Colors
Black and white are the go-to colors in boudoir shoots. However, you don’t have to limit yourself to these—especially if you have a favorite color.
Incorporating pastels as this color palette adds softness to clothes. Jewel hues like emerald green or electric blue bring elegance and a lot of punch to outfits.
Explore hues that work best with your skin tone. Deeper tones and slate hues are very popular in lingerie right now. Try to avoid fluorescent tones as they do not present well on camera and can be distracting.
Shoes and Accessories
Shoes can complete your ensemble and elongate the body. Whether you want something vintage or minimalist, think about how they add to your overall vibe.
You can start with classic black heels or sparkly pumps. Thigh-high boots also look good with strappy clothes. Another option is to wear nude heels, which are perfect with softer-colored lingerie. One thing to keep in mind is to evaluate if your heels have worn-out bottoms. There’s a good chance that the bottom part could show up in the photos.
Aside from that, maybe consider some antique jewelry, a family heirloom piece, or anything sparkly and classic. If you’re a hat person, bring one along! It’s a fun way to show off your personal style!
Balance New and Barely Used Clothes
Since boudoir photos would become a keepsake for years to come, you may want fresh outfits for the shoot. Our client below opted for a combination of new items, items from her closet, and a little thrift-hopping for that cool tuxedo jacket.
I can bet you money you have some great items to combine already in your closet!
Wear What Makes You Feel at Ease
For example, if you don’t feel relaxed or comfortable revealing too much skin, you can opt for off-the-shoulder tees, a fitted see-through shirt, or a dress with a high-slit instead. Whether you’re into sexier outfits or casual vibes, the important thing about your session is showing your inner-being without inhibition. Your wardrobe plays a SUPPORTING role. You are the star of the show! Your outfits should speak for your personality so you can wear them confidently!
Trust Your Gut
Does your smile widen when wearing lingerie? Do you feel like you can conquer the world with your favorite leather jacket? Do you feel like a vintage movie starlet when you wear a silk robe?
A boudoir photography session is all about you, so you should choose clothing items you feel naturally drawn to. This way, you’ll feel authentic in your outfits.
Do’s and Don’ts When Picking a Boudoir Outfit
As you narrow down your boudoir shoot wardrobe, here are final reminders to ensure you don’t forget anything. All that’s left to do is pamper yourself and focus on this treat for yourself.
- DO pick clothes that represent your sexual expression well. A boudoir shoot isn’t all about femininity. If you want to add a dash of boyish or androgynous outfits, you do you! I love challenging gender assumptions!
- DO keep in mind that sometimes, less is more. Some of the most gorgeous boudoir photos involve covering the body with only a bedsheet or sheer materials. This also lets you create nude-illusion shots without actually showing more than you’d like.
- DO try on all your outfits and move around in them. If you feel fidgety or self-conscious, don’t bring it. Only bring items that make you feel amazing!
- DON’T use neon colors or busy patterns. Choose clothes that highlight your favorite features.
- DON’T wear excessively tight outfits that don’t fit in the right places, as these can form weird lines across the body. Avoid garments that dig into the skin and cut into your flesh.
- DON’T feel like you have to splurge lots of money for a wardrobe overhaul. You probably already have hidden gems in your closet. Or invest in ONE new high-quality piece. Don’t go crazy! Variety comes from the way I shoot angles, frame the image, and coach for emotions. Your wardrobe plays a supporting role—that’s it!
- DO be sure to steam/iron all items and hang them. Cut out tags inside clothing.
- DON’T forget that wrinkles show in photos!
Closing Out: Choosing The Best Boudoir Outfit for Your Shoot
As a professional boudoir photographer, I want you to feel totally comfortable and sexy during your photoshoot. While I can suggest various outfits for the session, you should consider what helps bring out your personality. From there, I will guide you in posing and body language for your boudoir photos.
If you are booked with us, we will hop on a wardrobe consultation call to help you narrow down outfits that fit the vibe you’re going for. We are here to support you!
